Wednesday, April 29, 2009

...............and so we will home school



Meet DJ. DJ is 5, and would be scheduled to start formal kindergarten this fall. DJ has always been a very interesting child. He is inquisitive, imaginative, he's very interested in things that little boys are interested in, but he's very tender and sensitive as well. DJ was also blessed with the gift of gab. The child that didn't talk until he was almost 3 has not stopped since then. I have wrestled with the idea of sending DJ to school since I was pregnant with him. Getting to know him over the last 5 years has only provoked the battle that I was having. Getting DJ to sit still for longer than 2 minutes to look at a book that doesn't involve tractors, trucks, hunting, or science is near imposible. It was always a joke in the family that when DJ goes to kindergarten he probably won't know his ABCs, but he'll know how to over-haul an engine. Well guess what, DJ doesn't completely know his ABCs, and he can tell you in complete detail how combustion occurs inside of an engine, he can tell you which presidents appear on money, he explained to my mother-in-law, at 4, how evaporation occurs and the effects on the weather. It has been such an inspirational journey to watch this little guy turn into the person that he is. When the subject of enrolling him in pre-school came up I tactfully avoided it. When the subject of enrolling into Kindergarten was brought up it was time to make a decision. Everytime I thought about all these wonderful things that make up my little boy I realized that none of them fit the mold of the public school system. I was then taken back to remember a little girl who sat in the hallway and visited the principals office frequently throughout K-5, and was made to feel that voicing her ideas was bad. I was that little girl, and at the age of 27 those feelings are still just as fresh. So I constructed my case and took it to the Head of the Board, aka my husband, and the decision was made. So here we go......................

3 comments:

  1. Brandy~

    I am the administrator of "homeschooling for the first time" on circle of moms. Thats how I got the link to this blog...I am thrilled to "meet" you have you as part of out community on circle of moms. Thanks for taking the time to share your thoughts on what you have been going through...I am a former public educator and my mom has been one for 30 years. We know what the system is like, and I, like you, remember all too well what it is like to have your ideas shoved aside and your spirit essentially broken by "teachers" who could care less. At 31, I'm still dealing with fear of asking questions! My son, Brett, is also 5. We made the decision a year ago...my family is on board, but my husband's family does NOT get it. My Brett reminds me of your son in that he too is highly inquisitive, a talker, curious and also tender hearted. Kudos to you for making the decision, and I will enjoy learning about what y'all are doing through your blog :)
    Blessings to you~
    Jennifer Ward
    thewardfamily3.blogspot.com

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  2. I am so glad that I'm not the only one! It's so nice to hear from another homeschooler. I'm sure it's going to be a fun adventure. I'm looking forward to swapping stories.
    Sincerely
    Brandy Mihalak

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  3. By the way...I too love that verse you have listed and had started my own "Homeschool Blog" about a week ago...I used the same verse! (3 Jn 1:4) I haven't published the blog for public viewing yet, but I thought it was funny that we seem to be kindred spirits :)

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